But the thing is, I just want to get married so I can make her the minister for my own kingdom, so I was planning to get married then leave the kingdom to go and create my own. Co.:Here's a semi-related question: I joined a kingdom as a vassal because the father of the lady I wanted to marry needed me to, in order to have his permission to marry her. I think that about covers the quick and dirty version. Then you can get staight into holding feasts and boosting relations with your own lords. If you can, have lots of food/drink and spice stored in your capital. He normally rallies the army for a while, but once that is over the invite comes through shortly after and you seal the wedding.

I prepare everything and then make the father of the bride marshal. I find waiting until I have my own kingdom easier. Beware, a kingdom at war will make this very hard to achieve.ħ. Once a feast occurs that your wife to be and her father attend, you must speak to him and complete the ceremony. You will need lots of cash for a dowry, so be ready with 20k+. if granted this starts a quest to complete. Once ready, approach the father for permission to marry. Impact of the poem depends on the lady in question.Ħ.

You need these when courting your lady, for more relation value. Make sure as you travel you have spoken to bards and learned lots of peoms. If you have a good relationship with her and family she should respond positively.ĥ. Once you have good standing with a single woman (approx 10/15) tell her you are an admirer. This improves relations quickly o start with, and costs nothing.Ĥ. When winning tournements, dedicate the win to unmarried ladies in the castle you won at. It can also boost relations with other lords.ģ. Over time you build positive relations with senior lords, some of whom have a daughter.Ģ.

I see lots of folk wanting to get a wife, and failing.

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